Infinitely long conversations with friends, detailed analysis of a variety of situations, self-help books and numerous endless debates dedicated to male-female relationships. It seems that women are stubbornly trying to peek into the male’s brain. Do you need some help? These are some few small secret secrets that men want women to know.
“WE THINK ON SEX MORE OFTEN”
This is without exaggeration one of the biggest sex truths when it comes to men. Statistics say that men think much more often about sex than women. And yes, almost all without exception are regular viewers of porn content. The sooner you face reality, the easier it will go into the complex male mind, for whom men claim to be fairly simple tailor-made.
“YES, WE HEAR YOU WHILE YOU ARE SPEAKING”
It seems that women never miss words, we always have something to say. Men are patient and faithful listeners, and if you think they are completely excluded during your monologue just because they replicate you with a short YES or NO, think twice. Men can listen when you speak and you will be surprised to see you later. But do not forget that they do not want to play detectives. They hear only what is spoken clearly and loudly. And this brings us to the next secret …
“WE DO NOT WANT SARCASTIC TALKS”
Unlike women, men do not go into a detailed analysis of the conversations and situations, nor do conspiracy theories. That’s why, do not be angry if they do not take any action after asking you “What’s wrong?” And you answer multiple times with the word that they hate the most – “Nothing.” Although “nothing” is always “something”, men do not know it. They can say to themselves that they do not see in a crystal magic ball to know exactly what is bothering you and pass through your mind. If you want their attention or want to achieve some kind of purpose, say it openly, because men love the statements properly served, not covered with mystery and ambiguity.
“BARELY SAY “I LOVE YOU””
It is time to face another truth. You will rarely hear this love saying from a man, especially at the beginning of the relationship, unless it’s a liar or a manipulator who wants to drag you to bed sooner. Men conquer slowly and prefer actions and deeds rather than words. Therefore, do not force him to make such statements.
“I love you, and do you love me?” Is probably one of the worst sentences you can say and make it feel uncomfortable.
“HATES SETTING ULTIMATUMS”
Be aware that you act incredibly angry when placing ultimatums like “We’ll have sex if you pick up laundry” or “You can go out with friends if you buy me the dress I tried yesterday”. Men are not stupid at all and want to respect you with full respect, not when you are suffocating them with ultimatums. Such blackmailing is degrading. Even if you do it at the moment, do not forget that men remember this low and irresistible way of achieving the goal will return to you twice worse.
“DO NOT ASK IF THE OUTFIT FITS YOU PERFECTLY”
Women love compliments and seem to do everything to force a few by the loved one. But what you need to know is that if you look really good, a man will find a way to tell you this, whether it’s a verbal statement in the form of a sincere comment or a nonverbal gesture like a stunning smile. It’s simple – you do not like raped questions secretly related to the number of your pounds. Questions like “Whether my dress is good to me or you think it makes me fat?” men prefer to leave unanswered, because otherwise they always end up with a “white” lie or a quarrel.
“WE LOVE WHEN YOU TRY TO SEDUCE US IN BED”
Men want you when you are brave and take the initiative for sex. Nothing excites them more than a woman she truly wants. It is desirable to take the strings in your hands from time to time and slowly start knitting a mischievous network around your partner. It will undoubtedly appreciate you much more.
“WE ARE FEELING UNSECURE ABOUT OUR PHYSICAL LOOK”
You would be surprised if you find that both men and women face uncertainties associated with their own appearance. The only difference is that women openly talk and complain about their shortcomings, while men keep their thoughts for themselves. But that does not mean that they are considered perfect. Here, of course, is the size of their sex organ, a topic that is pretty sensitive to every man, as well as the question of the quality of their sexual performance in bed and the ability to please you.
You thought that you only worry about the imperfections of the body, like cellulite or small breasts? And men fear the size of their beer stomach or the increased hairiness of parts of their body, which is perfectly normal.
“WE NEED TIME FOR US AND MY FRIENDS”
You may not see the point of watching a football game and you do not understand the magic of the sports betting, the Sunday climbing of a mountain or fishing, but men just enjoy spending time with their friends. It’s the same as women’s shopping or coffee with your girlfriends. The stronger sex yearns for their own personal space and time for their self and friends. Enable those precious moments without blackmailing or disturbing calls during friendship. Show maturity and expect your understanding to be returned to you.
“WE SAY WHAT WE THINK”
In the end, to sum up, there are rarely any ambiguous or hidden messages in men. They say to themselves that “What you see – that’s what you get.” Really rare are those who play mental games and of course we exclude chronic liars who convince you that they will surely contact you to go out to coffee. The other men claim that they are really simple and you do not need any manuals to decrypt them.